Today, on this bright Sunday, we celebrate Mother’s Day, a day that holds so much beauty, love, and appreciation. It is a day full of joy, laughter, and the warmth that only a mother’s love can bring. But for some of us, it’s a day that carries a different weight, a day that evokes a profound sense of longing, a reminder of an empty space that once was filled with unconditional love and boundless care. To […]
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Understanding the Emotionally Immature Parent
Emotions are the foundation of our human experience. As we navigate our way through life, we encounter various situations that test our emotional wherewithal. Whether it is our emotional resistance, stability, or expression, there are many complicated parts that make up this very personal landscape of feelings and expression. One important variable of our emotional selves is that of maturity.What is Emotional Maturity?Emotional maturity is the ability to understand, regulate, and express our emotions in […]
Read More“The Healing Power of Solitude: How Time Alone Can Improve Your Mental Health”
Solitude, the state of being alone, is often viewed as a negative and lonely experience. However, it can also be an opportunity to connect with oneself in a way that is sometimes not possible in the dynamic of a relationship, family, or daily life. Solitude is something we must sometimes fight for, if it does not present itself to us as an opportunity. And it is an opportunity. Solitude provides a chance to reflect on […]
Read MoreAlone on Valentine’s Day
Whether you are single or in a relationship, Valentine’s Day can be difficult for those feeling alone or isolated. The holiday can bring up a range of emotions and feelings that can be challenging to navigate. If you are feeling lonely on Valentine’s Day, it is important to remember that you are not alone in your experience. And it is normal to feel a sense of sadness or isolation if you find yourself alone on […]
Read MoreClinical Supervision
Clinical supervision is an important process for clinicians to receive feedback and support in their work with clients. Supervision can help clinicians to reflect on their clinical practice, learn new skills, and improve their work with clients. As a licensed psychotherapist and clinical supervisor in California, I offer clinical supervision to associate therapists (AMFTs, APCCs, and ACSW). If you are looking for a supervisor who can provide oversite and help you grow, I would be happy to […]
Read MoreForgiving and Letting Go
We have all been hurt by another person at some time or another — we were treated badly, trust was broken, maybe our hearts were broken too. And while pain is normal, sometimes it lingers for too long. We relive the pain over and over, even marry it to anger and have a hard time letting go. An inability to let go can cause distress, distract us from work and family. It can also hinder future relationships, […]
Read MoreMind-Body Therapy (Integrative Psychotherapy)
Integrative psychotherapy is an approach to emotional regulation and healing by way of increasing one’s resilience and personal resources. It incorporates the fundamental principles of traditional psychotherapy and integral medicine to promote healing on all levels: emotional physical, mental and spiritual. Integrative psychotherapy aims to create a healthy alliance between mind and body to enable clients to manage stress and create a healthy lifestyle. In addition to counseling services, some of the tools available through […]
Read MoreWhat is Positive Psychology?
What is Positive Psychology?Traditionally, the study of psychology includes a deep analysis of psychopathology, behaviors that deviate from the “norm” and the negative feelings that are associated with them. The focus in this form of study and this approach to therapy best serves that portion of the population that is in crisis, not functional, or in acute emotional pain. But what about the even larger portion of the population that are functional, not in crisis yet […]
Read MoreIndividual Psychotherapy
Individual Psychotherapy: Becoming a Self-HealerI offer individual psychotherapy services that focus on healing, empowerment, and ultimately, gaining the skills to be your own best therapist. “Self-Healing” & overcoming challenges from my own early childhood were instrumental in leading me into the field of coaching & counseling. After spending nearly a decade living abroad, I found a home in California and earned a Master’s Degree in Psychology, with an emphasis on Marriage and Family Therapy. I’m a […]
Read MoreBe the Change
Be the Change We rise by lifting others. When you support others through their challenges, your life starts to have more meaning. If you want to access abundance, give to others. If you want to feel more compassion in your life, be empathetic. If want more forgiveness in the world, help someone on their road to redemption. Be the thing you are in want of— In helping others, you are given great opportunities – […]
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